Many people think that gay women don't have much to state about heterosexual men. Lesbians find out about girls'stuff and women's parts, right? Not the whole picture. Their sex lives can coach you on a lot about your relationship along with your man.
I interviewed several women who identified themselves as lesbian or bisexual and asked for their advice. What do you want straight women to keep in mind in the bed room?
Jana said: "Women with women sex tends to take two to three times as long. It's only a lengthier, more sensual experience. This is practical because women are generally more patient during sex and take longer to "warm up ".But why can't this be true of heterosexual relationships? Sometimes it can appear like a race to orgasm along with your man. Slowing will improve the knowledge for both of you and make you actually consider the other person's body, mind and heart.
Diane says, "Snuggling is a long road to
maintaining the HIGH bonding relationship. Nicole Sanders supports her: "Following the sexual embrace it feels almost just like the sex session.... almost." Yet again, especially in long-term relationships, we are able to have a race to the bottom mentality. Get me that orgasm and make me fall asleep! Well, don't forget Sex Between Lesbian Girls Lesbian hugs. Snuggling is comfort and love. Hugs raise your oxytocin levels, making you feel closer to your partner and happier in general. Don't loosen the spoon! Nicole had much more to state than hug power. She added, "To begin with, straight women don't know they don't have to pretend. How many times have you been in bed with some guy and he's doing the proper thing but you're not around the Big O? You're faking it really to have her to give up? That's enough of that. If your partner is mature, you'll realize that sometimes it really isn't planning to happen. That doesn't mean the sex doesn't feel good.
