Question: If you like women, why can you sleep with a woman who appears like a son? Why don't you day a man?
Answer: Because men are men. As a lesbian, I'm interested in the parts and mind of a woman. Men don't have tits (well, yes, but they're not developed). I've difficulty connecting emotionally with men. I could have friends who're men, but falling in love was difficult, because I don't identify with men in the same way. We do not "click ".Also, even with more masculine-looking men or queer people, there is still an atmosphere of difference from standard, and that feels best for many of us.
Question: If I want to kiss a woman, does that produce me a lesbian?
Answer: Not necessarily. Our culture attaches too much importance to labels. I am hoping we get to the level in the story where it doesn't matter anymore. Type of like 80% of straight women have lesbian fantasies, so you're in good company.
Question: after seeing the movie "Blue is the warmest color ".Is this really have sex?
Answer: The clear answer is yes and no. Many lesbians are angry in regards to the portrait of lesbian sex. Some claim that sex is too "pornographic" and an example
of the "male lesbian fantasy ".I believed the movie was sexy. For me, it was an exact representation. I like rough sex. I like anal. I could carry on and on for a long time. I didn't understand most of the fuss so it was fake. Apparently lots of women are having sex differently than I am. Question: What is fisting?
Answer: I wrote a whole column about fisting, so here's the hyperlink to go read it. The column gives many details.
Question: Have you been flirting with me?
Answer: Maybe. Have you been hot? If so, then I probably am.
Question: If I've a "friend" who wants to date a girl... um... how would I tell her a method to make that happen?
Answer: I also wrote two different columns about how exactly and where to meet women. The first is about online dating and finding love or a one-night stand. The second is about how exactly to meet ladies in the true world. My main advice to women who, as Andy Cohen loves to express, want to "have a dip in the women's pond" is just to be honest. No body wants to be always a science experiment, but many lesbians and gays don't care about a woman's sexual identity.
